WE LIVE IN TIMES WHEN MANY WOMEN WILL TAKE OFF THEIR TROUSERS AND MANY MEN THEIR SKIRTS… AND VICE VERSA!
Gender issues in the collective consciousness are the reflection, in the Lower Octave, of what happens in the Higher Octave in the collective unconscious: they symbolically reflect the creation of the Androgyne.
But the Androgyne is not just about what we see manifesting outwardly through our relationship with gender.
It also represents the reconstruction of our Inner Family:
Feminine — Masculine — Child.
And it is no coincidence that, while this Inner Family seeks a new balance, on the social plane we see the opposite problem manifesting with enormous force: families and societies in which the Masculine takes an authoritarian form and the Feminine is humiliated, controlled, and deprived of its voice and freedom.
We also see this in contemporary controversies over the condition of women in some Muslim-majority societies and communities, especially where patriarchal interpretations of religious and social norms impose strong limitations on their autonomy.
This is not a characteristic attributable indiscriminately to Islam or to all Muslim families: here I am speaking of those realities where this subordination concretely exists.
But beware: this is not a speech against men, and it is not a war of women against men.
When I speak of Feminine and Masculine, I am not simply speaking of biological sex. I am speaking of two inner energies present, in different proportions and forms, in every human being.
A man may have a highly developed Feminine and a wounded, repressed, or submissive Masculine. He may therefore find himself, in his own life, yielding his Strength to a woman in whom a dominant Masculine prevails instead.
Likewise, a woman may have a strongly developed Feminine and a repressed inner Masculine, and find herself submissive to a man who expresses his Masculine through dominance.
Roles can be reversed. Energies can change configuration.
That is why the problem is not "the man" and it is not "the woman".
The problem is the imbalance.
And it is precisely here that this text ceases to be merely a social reflection and becomes a reflection on inner healing.
As you read it, do not just ask yourself who dominates and who is submitted in the outside world.
Look within yourself.
Where is your Feminine?
Where is your Masculine?
Which of the two has been repressed?
Which one is afraid?
Which one dominates the other?
Which one has renounced its function?
And what could they create if they stopped fighting each other?
It does not matter whether you are a man or a woman.
The Inner Family belongs to both.
Feminine.
Masculine.
Child.
The Child is the Creation that can be born when the two energies stop fighting each other and begin to collaborate.
In my symbolic reading, what we see in the Lower Octave represents outwardly the same fracture that, in the Higher Octave, must be mended: a Masculine that dominates instead of protecting and a Feminine forced to submit instead of creating.
The true reconstruction of the Inner Family does not require the Feminine to submit the Masculine, nor the Masculine to submit the Feminine.
It requires both to heal.
The Feminine generates.
The Masculine acts, protects, decides, and brings into matter.
The Child is what is born from their union: Creativity, Work, New Reality.
In the Old World, this Inner Family has been deeply unbalanced.
Women have been taught to develop above all the Feminine that welcomes, understands, supports, waits, and remains silent, while their healthy Masculine — the one that speaks, decides, sets boundaries, defends, acts, and builds — has too often been repressed.
But now the woman is waking up.
And the woman is beginning to speak.
Not to become a man.
Not to submit man.
But to recover her own healthy Masculine and bring it back into balance with her Feminine.
And the same process, in a different form, also concerns man.
Man, too, may need to recognize a repressed, wounded, or devalued Feminine, without thereby losing his own Masculine.
Because healing the Feminine does not mean becoming a woman.
And healing the Masculine does not mean becoming a man.
It means recognizing both forces within oneself and restoring each to its own function.
In the outer world, the conflict manifests as man against woman, dominance against submission.
When the Masculine wants to dominate and the Feminine is forced to submit, there is no balance: there is a power relationship.
In the inner world, the same conflict manifests as a fracture between one's Feminine and one's Masculine, which begs to be healed.
And it is here that we understand that this battle must be won by neither the Feminine nor the Masculine.
IT MUST BE RECONCILED.
Between the two exists the Middle Earth: the World of the Magician's Star. It is the point where Feminine and Masculine, reconciled, form a new inner constellation. The Star is born from their union and guides the Magician's Heart like a compass, so that what has been mended in the Spirit may be embodied in matter.
It is the Constellation of the Divine Family that precedes the Human Family: Feminine, Masculine, and Child — the Creativity that is born from their union.
Woman must no longer yield her Strength to an external Masculine so that he may act in her place.
Woman restores her Strength to HER healthy Masculine.
And likewise, man must not hand over his Strength to a dominant external Feminine, renouncing his own center.
Everyone is called to recognize their own Feminine and their own Masculine, without turning one of the two into the master and the other into the servant.
The Feminine and the Masculine are no longer enemies.
They must not dominate each other.
They must not submit to each other.
They must reconcile.
And from their union something is born that did not exist before:
a new Creation,
a new Reality,
a New Age.
THE AGE OF AQUARIUS.
IN MY UNIVERSE, GOD IS LOVE AND NOT A DESPOT!
I dissociate myself from every despotic influence built on slavery, on the fear of God, and on the glorification of suffering, with which false gurus and false masters try to program people.
That is their Matrix. Not mine.
I do not inhabit that reality and I do not feed it. They are the ones who create it and, in doing so, they become their own difficulty.
But the problem becomes even more serious when someone ceases to be a difficulty only for themselves and chooses to become an obstacle to the freedom of others.
For me, this is where karma comes into play: when you not only choose your own prison, but also teach others to build one for themselves and call it "spirituality".
Do not lead souls away from freedom.
Do not teach them that they must suffer to deserve God.
Do not turn fear into spiritual discipline.
Do not call submission "evolution".
Because the suffering we impose on others sooner or later becomes part of the reality we have created for ourselves as well.
I dissociate myself from all the 💩🤠 outer [nonsense] in which I do not recognize myself.
I do not belong to any pyramid.
To any guru.
To any guide or supposed "master".
To any false Matrix built to dominate, frighten, and make dependent.
My God is the Universe.
In my Universe, God is Love.
I am Magician, Creator of my Reality, of my Love, and of my Freedom.
And above all, I no longer hand over to anyone the right to determine what my reality must be.
Tória Dark
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